Creativity from Everyday Life-Tips from Grandma #2

6 More Tips That I Got From My Grandmother

Mémère, was a great influence and it is not until now that I realize how she shaped my attitude in life.  She was unfailingly optimistic and these are some of her suggestions.  Keep in mind that when my grandmother moved to Alberta, she had to live in a tent for the winter.  There were two adults and eight children in that tent.  If you can survive that, you cannot help but be positives. 

Smile a lot. Decide to think positively. Every time life places obstacles in your path, give life a big grin, accept the challenge and overcome it. Make the decision to be happy, stand by your decisions and do whatever is in your power to keep them. This is the true secret to happiness.  

***As an artist, you will have plenty of obstacles. Often people find it easy to criticize people with a creative lifestyle.  Instead of getting angry, just point out how much you love what you do. There is nothing else like it. Point out the positive parts of your choices.  Skip over the negative parts.  Turn their negative into a positive.  This also teaches ‘them’ that there are real big positives to being and artist.  They may even start envying you.

  • Look into people’s eyes when you talk to them. Ask them about their day, and how they feel. Care enough about people to look at them and listen to them.  They will remember you and they will care back.

As an artist, you create a bond with people when you look them in the eye.  They feel you are really listening to them. They will listen back and gradually become a friend or even a client.

  • Friends come and go. They help us become better people. Keep the good friends that help you and let go the friends that bring you down. Learn to tell which are the good friends and which are not. 

As an artist, friends are important to share ideas with and help you out.  You help each other to find opportunities.  However, some people are not as good at sharing.  Some will take your ideas and use them as their own. Those people are not your friends.  Dump them now.  If you cannot, create space between you and them.  Don’t share with them. 

  • Success comes with work. There is no secret to success. Wake up earlier than everyone else. Go to bed later. Work, work, work. That’s what it takes, and there is no shortcut.

As an artist, it is best to learn this early. Artists often have to work harder than most. Being an artist means being your own boss and running a business -your business.  There is no way to get around a lot of work.

  • Looking back is not good for you.  You need to look forward to the good things.Memories are beautiful and they define who we become, but forward is always the right direction. Keep your eyes towards the new good events coming your way.

As an artist, there will be lots of ups and downs in your ‘art business’.  Focus on the positives.  Focusing on the negatives will only lead you to abandon your artistic endeavors for a job you may not like.  Trade a ‘happy’ job like art for a negative one? No way! Your positive attitude will be reflected in your work. Your attitude will show.  Stay positive. 

  • Bad days happen. Take a shower and go to bed. Whatever happened that day will pass and it will get better. Learn from the ‘issue’ and move on.

As an artist, you will have days where you wreck you painting because you go too far, make a bad cut in your sculpture or spill a bottle of ink on your 20 hour drawing. This is normal.  Everyone has bad days. What is important is how you handle the problem. Like Mémère says, go to bed.  Your brain will find a solution while you sleep.  You were probably tired anyways.  That is why the accident happened.

Creativity in everyday life -Tips from Grandma #2

Six more tips from my grandmother

6 More Tips That I Got From My Grandmother

Mémère, was a great influence and it is not until now that I realize how she shaped my attitude in life. She was unfailingly optimistic and these are some of her suggestions. Keep in mind that when my grandmother moved to Alberta, she had to live in a tent for the winter. There were two adults and eight children in that tent. If you can survive that, you cannot help but be positives.

1. Smile a lot. Decide to think positively. Every time life places obstacles in your path, give life a big grin, accept the challenge and overcome it. Make the decision to be happy, stand by your decisions and do whatever is in your power to keep them. This is the true secret to happiness.

As an artist, you will have plenty of obstacles. Often people find it easy to criticize people with a creative lifestyle. Instead of getting angry, just point out how much you love what you do. There is nothing else like it. Point out the positive parts of your choices. Skip over the negative parts. Turn their negative into a positive. This also teaches ‘them’ that there are real big positives to being and artist. They may even start envying you.

2. Look into people’s eyes when you talk to them. Ask them about their day, and how they feel. Care enough about people to look at them and listen to them. They will remember you and they will care back.

As an artist, you create a bond with people when you look them in the eye. They feel you are really listening to them. They will listen back and gradually become a friend or even a client.

3. Friends come and go. They help us become better people. Keep the good friends that help you and let go the friends that bring you down. Learn to tell which are the good friends and which are not.

As an artist, friends are important to share ideas with and help you out. You help each other to find opportunities. However, some people are not as good at sharing. Some will take your ideas and use them as their own. Those people are not your friends. Dump them now. If you cannot, create space between you and them. Don’t share with them.

4. Success comes with work. There is no secret to success. Wake up earlier than everyone else. Go to bed later. Work, work, work. That’s what it takes, and there is no shortcut.

As an artist, it is best to learn this early. Artists often have to work harder than most. Being an artist means being your own boss and running a business -your business. There is no way to get around a lot of work.

5. Looking back is not good for you. You need to look forward to the good things.Memories are beautiful and they define who we become, but forward is always the right direction. Keep your eyes towards the new good events coming your way.

As an artist, there will be lots of ups and downs in your ‘art business’. Focus on the positives. Focusing on the negatives will only lead you to abandon your artistic endeavors for a job you may not like. Trade a ‘happy’ job like art for a negative one? No way! Your positive attitude will be reflected in your work. Your attitude will show. Stay positive.

6. Bad days happen. Take a shower and go to bed. Whatever happened that day will pass and it will get better. Learn from the ‘issue’ and move on.

As an artist, you will have days where you wreck you painting because you go too far, make a bad cut in your sculpture or spill a bottle of ink on your 20 hour drawing. This is normal. Everyone has bad days. What is important is how you handle the problem. Like Mémère says, go to bed. Your brain will find a solution while you sleep. You were probably tired anyways. That is why the accident happened.

I hope this helps you.

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Till next time …

Tips my grandmother gave me applied to my art practice.

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